Preparing For The Intervention

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Dr. Phil advises not to wait until your loved one "hits rock bottom" before planning the intervention, "because [the] bottom may be six feet under." To reach the drug or alcohol abuser through layers of denial is no easy task. Families can carry out a successful intervention plan if they are organized, informed and able to communicate effectively. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple "How are you doing?" at a critical moment to reach the substance abuser. Other times, you will need to break through layers of denial. While the substance abuser may react harshly at first, the family intervention may ultimately be a lifesaver.

The first step for an intervention is to choose the members to be involved. This group generally consists of three to eight people comprised of family members, friends, coworkers, clergy or a professional interventionist. Each person must be firmly committed and able to look the addict in the eye and say "You have a problem." They must firmly resolve to end the cycle of enabling to really help the person. The team members must have intimate, first hand knowledge of the situation to successfully break through the addict's denial. You must select people who have leverage and influence over the individual, who have the ability to make an emotional impact. In some cases, a seemingly helpless person like a young child could have the largest impact. Never underestimate the power of love. Prior to the intervention, a chairperson and a detail person should be chosen to facilitate the process and to keep a record of everything.

Prior to the intervention, participants will write a paragraph about what they have witnessed that has lead them to worry about the substance abuser. Facts should be clearly presented without passing judgment. Be specific about where and when a certain incident happened. A person's emotional reaction is also encouraged. Another important step in planning is to think out all the objections the alcoholic or drug addict may raise. The team must have an answer and a solution for every possible scenario. Interventionist members must present a clear plan of action, with a specific treatment center set up and ready to admit the individual. If the center is out of state, transportation should be arranged. You should also pack a suitcase for the individual, if possible, and plan to act immediately to take the person to the treatment facility immediately if he or she agrees. The more time that elapses, the more you're setting yourself up for ultimate failure.

The power of love, clarity and honesty in a group setting cannot be overstated. Sometimes the sheer shock that a support net has assembled with a game plan is enough to stir the substance abuser's emotions, prompting them to spontaneously agree to substance abuse treatment, even if he or she doubts the decision on the inside. Reading books, consulting a professional interventionist and enlisting the help of various organizations can be great tools to successfully plan intervention strategies. Interventions have saved thousands of families, so why not yours?